Carelessly, we hurt the people we love. That's alright. But to leave them to their own devices at the first sign of difficulty is knowingly doing it. If something I did hurts the one I love, I stay present & offer solace, at the expense of pride or need for correctness. If you ask me it isn't problems that define a relationship. It is the methods that decide what's worthwhile.
Daddy's words, “Every day is Valentine's Day when you are there for someone.” Thought it was cheesy but man it makes sense now.